I am lucky enough to not have any enemies. However, the harsh truth is this: that no matter what you do, you can’t please everyone. “Haters” is a silly word that bugs me to no end, I prefer “critics”. Besides, I’d like to bet those people don’t truly hate you; they’re very clearly dealing with some unresolved issues of their own. Crush your critics. The best way to deal with those types of people to is simply ignore them. That’s easier said than done, but just remember:
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.
Don’t feel like you have to please everybody. Focus on those that lift you up and make you feel good about yourself. Pleasing everybody is a tedious task that will never end.
I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all.
If this doesn’t hit you, I don’t know what will. It’s funny when somebody spends so much energy thinking about you, insulting you, belittling you, and trying to bring you down. That’s a lot of time spent: when does it become a hobby? An obsession? Pity them and pay them no mind.
Show respect even to people who don’t deserve it; not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.
I truly believe that hurtful people are the ones that need a friend the most. Although they’ll never admit it — they need someone. Be that someone, despite what they’ve done to hurt you. 👭👫👬
Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back, they’re behind you for a reason.
You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there’s still going to be someone who hates peaches.
The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment to absolutely and utterly walk away
The most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all. 🤐😙
You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.
In life, you’ve got to pick your battles. Quarrels with your critics just aren’t worth it.
Don’t worry your pretty little mind, people throw rocks at things that shine
Remember this: if you’re a threat, you’re always going to be the target for people’s negativity. And if you’re a threat, you’re already on top sweetheart. 💝Crush your critics!
You wouldn’t let assholes live in your house – why let them live in your head?
Should you ever find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, jealousy, lies and insecurities… don’t be mad. Remember things could be worse: you could be them.
Please remember: there will always be people wanting to pull you to their level, fill your head with doubt and stand back to watch you fail. Don’t give them the satisfaction. Go forth and crush your critics, and then hop on twitter and tell me all about it! You can find me at @hauntedhousewfe 🕷
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